Too many over priced old fashion’s, or a cheeky double vodka red bull, whipping and hotline blinging on the floor. Getting off with one of those wannabe Made in Chelsea or Towie boys. A classic British night out no?
Evidently more times than not in the UK, casual hook ups after a ‘crazy’ night out, end in an embarrassing walk of shame; the need for a 3 hour shower, and the numbing stomach swelling feeling of ‘why’. We’re analysing exactly why we say yes to things, especially in the context of the big S.E.X.
Most girls I've conversed with have been in the position where sex appears as more of a task than a treat.
Apart from the obvious stance of ‘Daddy issues’ young women are stating that partners “wont like me unless I have sex with them, they’d go get it somewhere else if I didn’t” and “don’t want to seem boring” This inclination of mating being a ‘deed that must be done’ ‘an act to impress’ is an outdated way of thinking; women are no longer waiting around to greet hubby at the door with a spam soufflé and a smile, we have our own minds and the decisions are ours.
Furthermore this concern is raised when you’ve made it to GF BF status; “its what I'm supposed to do,” “i feel like i have to we’re in a relationship”, “If i don't want to do it all the time, does that mean we’re out the honeymoon period?” all together no, everyone gets tired, exhausted or just 'not in the mood'. chill.
Whether it be stroking their ego or using sex as a tool for affection
its ok to say no.
Of corse sex is great and fun, everyone does it! But if you ever feel like you don't want to, you don't have to. Ultimately its your choice, if your partner does not respect this get rid of them, because someone else will. LOVE URSELF RESPECT UR BODY
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